ائْتِ حَرْثَكَ أنَّى شِئْتَ وأطْعِمْها إذا طَعِمْتَ واكْسُها إذا اكْتَسَيْتَ ولاَ تُقَبِّحِ الوَجْهَ ولاَ تَضْرِبْ
Narrated Bahz ibn Hakim: that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Approach your tilth when or how you will, give her (your wife) food when you eat food, clothe when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her.”
Grade: حسن
Also in Abu Dawud 2143 ; al-Silsila al-sahiha” (687).
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