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Abu naasir(حفظه الله) said:
You can bear all the insults and embarrassment towards you from your boss or customers in your work place all because of the naira and kobo you want to earn but it is very difficult for you to bear and tolerate just an attitude very less to that toward you from your parents at home. Instead, you will always yell at them”
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You could bear the former because of the money or job, why couldn’t you bear the later because of jannaah!!!
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Don’t you say:
“If it wasn’t for Allāh and fulān”,
but say:
“if it wasn’t for Allāh then fulān”.
Said Ibn Bāz: as-Syirkul Ashghar (minor shirk) is like: “If it was not because of Allāh and fulān, by the will of Allāh and fulān’s will”.
And it is obligatory for someone to say: “If it was not because of Allāh then fulān, and Allāh’s will then fulān’s will”.
???? Majmū ‘Fatāwā 25/102