He Who Lacks Ghayrah (Protective Jealousy) Is NOT A Man
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم : ثلاثة قد حرم الله تبارك وتعالى عليهم الجنة : مدمن الخمر ، والعاق ، والديوث الذي يقر في أهله الخبث.
The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said: “There are three upon whom Allāh Tabārak Wa Ta’ālā has made Paradise Ḥarām (forbidden):
• The one addicted to intoxicants
• The one who is disobedient (to his parents)
• And the Dayyooth (shameless one) who approves lewd/evil acts of his womenfolk.”
● [رواه النسائي في السنن ٦١١٣]
Ibn al-Qayyim Raḥimahullāh said: “And that is because Ghayrah (protective jealousy) is from the basis of this religion so whoever lacks it then he lacks Deen, hence to Allāh a Dayyooth is the most vile creature and Jannah is Ḥarām upon him.”
● [الجواب الكافي]
al-Lajnah ad-Dā’imah (scholarly committee for research and Iftā) was asked if the label ‘Dayyooth’ applies to a man who allows his womenfolk to uncover themselves and wear unislamic attire or is it only applied to the one approves of acts of Zinā by his womenfolk??
They said: “So when one looks at these narrations then he understands that the label ‘Dayyooth’ is applied to EVERYONE who APPROVES EVIL of those who are under his guardianship (Wilāyah), be it his wife or daughter or his sister, all of it is same whether he approves them committing Zinā or whether he approves them engaging in THE SOURCES THAT LEAD TO ZINĀ, like his woman (wife, sister or daughter) uncovering herself in front of an unrelated man or being alone with him or going out of her home with him…”
● [فتوى رقم ٣٢٤٦]
???? Fatwā approved by Sh. Ibn Bāz Raḥimahullāh!!