IF YOU ORDER HIM WITH SOMETHING, BE THE FIRST TO HAVE DONE IT! From the contradictions that some parents fall into is that you find one of them would prohibit his child from a bad character that he exhibits. This is a contradiction! How can you request from your son to listen to you while you yourself do not fulfill the thing with which you have commanded him? How can you request from your son to abstain from something that you do not refrain from yourself?